These principles were devised by Alan Sharland of CAOS Conflict Management. They illustrate practical ways in which our communication practice can support the resolution of conflict.
- That we treat each other with respect.
- That we do not interrupt one another – listening is not agreeing.
- That we allow ourselves and others the right to pass.
- That we do not volunteer others.
- That we speak only for ourselves and speak as “I” not as “we”.
- That we speak for ourselves but not too often or for too long.
- That we respect confidentiality.
- That we challenge behaviour and not the person – labeling the person fails to describe or resolve what happened that led to the problem.
- That we acknowledge that it is OK to make mistakes as they are an opportunity to learn
More information about these principles is available in a free booklet for all clients who book a Minerva Mediation Conflict Coaching session and is also available on the CAOS Website.
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